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karmel
21st October 2008, 07:35:47 AM
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My daughter who is now 4 yrs old and in kg1 , her teachers say that shes perfect at school kol ishi mnee7 fiha ....:happy:

bs bil bait :sofera: shes exactly the oppsite :mal5oom: la bitrod wla bitsod:retard:

shu il sabab?

Gardenia
21st October 2008, 07:39:20 AM
keef ya3ni ma betrod.. when you revise the leesons witn her and ask her ma betjawbek?

karmel
21st October 2008, 07:44:11 AM
keef ya3ni ma betrod.. when you revise the leesons witn her and ask her ma betjawbek?

ma btesma3 kalami , jikra
la2 7aram she writes her homeworks bs bil orders bi ilha da5al ...

Gardenia
21st October 2008, 07:52:27 AM
ma btesma3 kalami , jikra
la2 7aram she writes her homeworks bs bil orders bi ilha da5al ...

asdek 3anidah.. she is 4 years old mashalla.. 2ad ayyoud,, lately he bacame very stubborn boy aswell..i guess its normal for this age to feel some depenence maybe.. bas el mohem keef net3amal ma3hom,ya3ni maslan he daily asks for extra choclate bar..i say No akahdet 7ostak.. bdalo foo2 rasi.. beddi.. beddi.. bedddiii.. "osloob na2".. la2..mish ra7 a36eeek.. ma feshroo7 ghurfetak ..bekammel na2 lamma yeghlab.." iza ma a36eteni el chocolata ra7 addaye3 ma2lamet jood..w akhod aghradha..huh!" ...ya salaaaam 3alik..
6ab3an marrat bardakh elo lamma aboo ma ykoon mawjood:rant:w marrat lazim yet3aqab:ag:

karmel
21st October 2008, 08:01:34 AM
asdek 3anidah.. she is 4 years old mashalla.. 2ad ayyoud,, lately he bacame very stubborn boy aswell..i guess its normal for this age to feel some depenence maybe.. bas el mohem keef net3amal ma3hom,ya3ni maslan he daily asks for extra choclate bar..i say No akahdet 7ostak.. bdalo foo2 rasi.. beddi.. beddi.. bedddiii.. "osloob na2".. la2..mish ra7 a36eeek.. ma feshroo7 ghurfetak ..bekammel na2 lamma yeghlab.." iza ma a36eteni el chocolata ra7 addaye3 ma2lamet jood..w akhod aghradha..huh!" ...ya salaaaam 3alik..
6ab3an marrat bardakh elo lamma aboo ma ykoon mawjood:rant:w marrat lazim yet3aqab:ag:


ah very smiliar to what happens with me tool il nhar bidi o bidiii 9talabaaat)
min awal 5 min she gets home , i tell her chnage ur unifrom 3ashan nitghada yalla o yalla o mafi jawaaab ....3ayoo6

when she comes finally bitseer ma bidi akol min hada mama bidi juice , i tell her finish your food first o yimkin bindla sa3aa 3la hal mawwal ...

at first i thought ino shes doing like thsi 3ashan shes jealous min her 10 month old sis bs shiklo ma ilo da5al...

I am generally strict with her o kaman her dad 3ashan we dont want her to be spoiled bs sara7a lazem ni3mil heek :o

CaNdLe
21st October 2008, 08:18:45 AM
:???::???:يمكن بالمدرسة بتغار من صحابها
كتير في صغار هيك

Morbid
21st October 2008, 08:22:33 AM
ah very smiliar to what happens with me tool il nhar bidi o bidiii 9talabaaat)
min awal 5 min she gets home , i tell her chnage ur unifrom 3ashan nitghada yalla o yalla o mafi jawaaab ....3ayoo6

when she comes finally bitseer ma bidi akol min hada mama bidi juice , i tell her finish your food first o yimkin bindla sa3aa 3la hal mawwal ...

at first i thought ino shes doing like thsi 3ashan shes jealous min her 10 month old sis bs shiklo ma ilo da5al...

I am generally strict with her o kaman her dad 3ashan we dont want her to be spoiled bs sara7a lazem ni3mil heek :o

u know what u shud do? lamma tbattel tred, e7remeeha min il ghada all together! trust me, btet3allam w betseer temshi zay il alef. once she knows who's in charge and that YOU are in authority and that YOU will not listen to her dala3, she will testaqeem. harsh yes, bas has to happen. gheir heik, she will become a brat.

karmel
21st October 2008, 08:55:47 AM
u know what u shud do? lamma tbattel tred, e7remeeha min il ghada all together! trust me, btet3allam w betseer temshi zay il alef. once she knows who's in charge and that YOU are in authority and that YOU will not listen to her dala3, she will testaqeem. harsh yes, bas has to happen. gheir heik, she will become a brat.

I was waiting for ur reply Morbid :happy:
ya3ni tammanteeni im on the right path , the more she does this kind of behaviuor the firmer I get with her ....( ana kaman jikra btw):ch:

karmel
21st October 2008, 08:57:27 AM
:???::???:يمكن بالمدرسة بتغار من صحابها
كتير في صغار هيك

I dont think so , I checked with her teacher ino does she has problems with any of the other kids and she said no...

thanx for ur answer Candle:give:

Morbid
21st October 2008, 08:59:04 AM
I was waiting for ur reply Morbid :happy:
ya3ni tammanteeni im on the right path , the more she does this kind of behaviuor the firmer I get with her ....( ana kaman jikra btw):ch:
ma howeh u have to, ur the parent, ur the authority figure, and she shud be able to follow the rules, u were nice, dint work, so u show her the other face, 3ashan t2adder the nice version of u :d
(kulna jekreen at some level lol)

karmel
21st October 2008, 09:06:53 AM
ma howeh u have to, ur the parent, ur the authority figure, and she shud be able to follow the rules, u were nice, dint work, so u show her the other face, 3ashan t2adder the nice version of u :d
(kulna jekreen at some level lol)

u r right:give:
bs min kotor ma heyyeh zaydeh hal tasarofat o ana zaydeh firm ma3ha sorit a7is 7ali dayman shireera:k:
so I guess lazem a5afif shwai la2ino yimkin zeh2at min my orders ( I am also bossy) ...

Arabyana
21st October 2008, 09:19:40 AM
u know what u shud do? lamma tbattel tred, e7remeeha min il ghada all together! trust me, btet3allam w betseer temshi zay il alef. once she knows who's in charge and that YOU are in authority and that YOU will not listen to her dala3, she will testaqeem. harsh yes, bas has to happen. gheir heik, she will become a brat.

totally agree!
and i heard this very answer from an expert that comes on a show on sharjah tv on thursdays -very good show-. he said exactly what morbid said, if the kid starts to be picky about food and never listens to what the mommy says, he/she should be banned from that meal for several hrs until he/she really starves and ASKS for food, and you should NOT give him/her any, until its the other's meal time. ya3ni u dont ruin ur meals schedul no matter what, she should wait lal 3asha.
meshan ye3refo eno allah 7aqqqqq :d

Morbid
21st October 2008, 09:24:31 AM
totally agree!
and i heard this very answer from an expert that comes on a show on sharjah tv on thursdays -very good show-. he said exactly what morbid said, if the kid starts to be picky about food and never listens to what the mommy says, he/she should be banned from that meal for several hrs until he/she really starves and ASKS for food, and you should NOT give him/her any, until its the other's meal time. ya3ni u dont ruin ur meals schedul no matter what, she should wait lal 3asha.
meshan ye3refo eno allah 7aqqqqq :d

ma ana expert bas never got my chance at stardom :d loool
yes3edek enti ya bta3t il 7aqqq :hug:

Arabyana
21st October 2008, 09:26:36 AM
ma ana expert bas never got my chance at stardom :d loool
yes3edek enti ya bta3t il 7aqqq :hug:

ma ana ba7eb ad3amek meshan a2aked ma3loomatek w tsiri experteh 3an 7aq w 7aqeeq :ch:
7aboobeh enty :hug:

karmel
21st October 2008, 09:34:29 AM
ma ana expert bas never got my chance at stardom :d loool
yes3edek enti ya bta3t il 7aqqq :hug:

tab3an u are:give:

karmel
21st October 2008, 09:37:55 AM
totally agree!
and i heard this very answer from an expert that comes on a show on sharjah tv on thursdays -very good show-. he said exactly what morbid said, if the kid starts to be picky about food and never listens to what the mommy says, he/she should be banned from that meal for several hrs until he/she really starves and ASKS for food, and you should NOT give him/her any, until its the other's meal time. ya3ni u dont ruin ur meals schedul no matter what, she should wait lal 3asha.
meshan ye3refo eno allah 7aqqqqq :d

looool
tayib 7ader...:ch:

Morbid
21st October 2008, 09:51:52 AM
ma ana ba7eb ad3amek meshan a2aked ma3loomatek w tsiri experteh 3an 7aq w 7aqeeq :ch:
7aboobeh enty :hug:
telameeli ya amar :hug:

tab3an u are:give:
thanks karmouleh :give: expert ma3 waqf il tanfeez bi hal balad tho lol :d yalla, w malo il banking :101:

SoPretty7awa
21st October 2008, 11:09:05 AM
morbid i have the same problem with my 3.5 years old daughter she is very stubburn, never listen and asks too much but i noticed that when i told her for example'' eat this 3ashan tosbo2e daddy she eats'' or ''take showe 3ashan tosbo2e bent elgeran'' btro7 tet7amam o bsor3ah 3ashan ma 7ada yosbo2ha

hala tasarofi ma3ha mazboo6?:give:

Morbid
21st October 2008, 11:15:19 AM
morbid i have the same problem with my 3.5 years old daughter she is very stubburn, never listen and asks too much but i noticed that when i told her for example'' eat this 3ashan tosbo2e daddy she eats'' or ''take showe 3ashan tosbo2e bent elgeran'' btro7 tet7amam o bsor3ah 3ashan ma 7ada yosbo2ha

hala tasarofi ma3ha mazboo6?:give:

i SOOOOO detest comparing and feeding the competitive streak in a kid, its best to teach them that they have chores/tasks/responsibilities la2anno they do, mish la2an someone else can do it and they shud be better at it than the others..

SoPretty7awa
21st October 2008, 11:20:01 AM
i SOOOOO detest comparing and feeding the competitive streak in a kid, its best to teach them that they have chores/tasks/responsibilities la2anno they do, mish la2an someone else can do it and they shud be better at it than the others..

bs 3'er hek ma bemshi el7al
once sme3t fe tv show 2no had elshe bewaled 3end el6efel ro7 elmonafaseh:???:

Morbid
21st October 2008, 11:24:09 AM
bs 3'er hek ma bemshi el7al
once sme3t fe tv show 2no had elshe bewaled 3end el6efel ro7 elmonafaseh:???:

ma i know, i mentioned the competetive streak, bas its not such a gr8 thing btw, to a certain extent ok, bas inno ykun ktir monafes, 3umro ma byerda bi shi, and the real reasons behind doing things is lost.

i know inno mray7ek il mawdou3, bas parenting isnt always bout shu biraye7na i7na, its bout doing the right thing and teaching ur kid right values, and teaching them responsibility is important.

SoPretty7awa
21st October 2008, 11:26:16 AM
ma i know, i mentioned the competetive streak, bas its not such a gr8 thing btw, to a certain extent ok, bas inno ykun ktir monafes, 3umro ma byerda bi shi, and the real reasons behind doing things is lost.

i know inno mray7ek il mawdou3, bas parenting isnt always bout shu biraye7na i7na, its bout doing the right thing and teaching ur kid right values, and teaching them responsibility is important.

:give:

Gardenia
21st October 2008, 06:19:59 PM
u know what u shud do? lamma tbattel tred, e7remeeha min il ghada all together! trust me, btet3allam w betseer temshi zay il alef. once she knows who's in charge and that YOU are in authority and that YOU will not listen to her dala3, she will testaqeem. harsh yes, bas has to happen. gheir heik, she will become a brat.

i tried el 7erman.. ma bejeeb nateejah.. plus its very exhausting to me and to them..!
ma fe ba3d el shebseb:ag:

karmel
21st October 2008, 07:59:21 PM
i tried el 7erman.. ma bejeeb nateejah.. plus its very exhausting to me and to them..!
ma fe ba3d el shebseb:ag:

:*l:
ana il shibshib ma zabat ma3i bl marra :ch:
il 7erman binfa3 ma3i kteeeer....:p

Lady D
22nd October 2008, 05:30:21 AM
when i used to work as a teacher, I had a similar situation. A mother was shocked when I told her that her son is very shy w 3a2el kteeeeeeer, she said that he's very naughty at home and couldn't believe that he's shy and very polite at school.

Why do some kids have two different personalities??

karmel
22nd October 2008, 09:03:19 AM
when i used to work as a teacher, I had a similar situation. A mother was shocked when I told her that her son is very shy w 3a2el kteeeeeeer, she said that he's very naughty at home and couldn't believe that he's shy and very polite at school.

Why do some kids have two different personalities??

:happy:
ya3ni bs ana la7alai 3indi hal problem ...:p

karmel
22nd October 2008, 09:07:57 AM
bs 3'er hek ma bemshi el7al
once sme3t fe tv show 2no had elshe bewaled 3end el6efel ro7 elmonafaseh:???:

keeefik dear? lissa ma wlidti?:hug:

sara7a ana ma ba7ib hal taree2a
batzakar ahli kano dayman ye7kolna 3a my couisn susu o lulu ...
kol ishi shufo ma ashtar susu o lulu bedroso la7alhom o ma bi3azbo o dayman awa3eehom indaf o ma basay7oo I ended up hating susu o luluuuuu:retard: